Be unique! Try different things you would never think you would. Do whatever it is that you think will bring you pleasure. Find out new things that you did not know you’d enjoy. Explore yourself and your partner to figure out all the place that turns them on. It never hurts to go back over this because it helps you know if their spots move or not. Sometimes the turn on spots will move just like tickle spots. You can kiss on them and suck on them and sometimes it works well for others and sometimes it doesn’t.
Try doing a that arouse them try strip tease, wearing cute little outfits, get your toys out and lay them on the bed, light some candles and rose pedals to set the mood. Try something you been wanting to try. Try role playing do whatever it is you feel will spice up the sex and love making. YOU NEVER KNOW UNLESS YOU TRY!