This toy is big! It is8 inches and really wide. I cannot even take it all because it is so big. It needs a lot of lube to begin with and then it gets better. You can suction cup that bad boy to any hard surface and go for a ride! It is so realistic and feels almost like the real thing! It feels so good that you just want to ride it for hours. It is really enjoyable it is bendy but not much. It sturdy as can be. You can even use it in the shower. If your applying lubrication then make sure the lube is water based or it will eat way at the silicon and then you will have to by more toys and then the same thing will happen like a cycle. Some places do not tell you this because they want you to come in and by the same toy or something different because they want your money. Others do tell you this because they want you to enjoy your toy so be sure to use the lube that the toy requires.